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08 Stuffing Your Feelings

March 7, 2020 By Shauna

WHAT THIS EPISODES ABOUT…

So today we’re going to talk about one of the most prevalent defense mechanisms that we women tend to use in relationships.

I call it stuffing, stuffing your feelings versus acknowledging them, processing them and speaking them to your partner or not just your partner. It could be your mom, your dad, your best friend, your kids, your boss. Oh yeah, we women are the true Queens of pushing our feelings away because they may make someone else uncomfortable or because we don’t like conflict or because someone taught us that our feelings don’t matter or because we have been told we are too emotional. We should stop that, shut down our feelings. Or it could be that we are afraid to share our feelings for fear of the repercussions of doing that. We fear that if we share our feelings, the other person may punish us in some way. Now let’s add another piece to this stuffing. I call it having no voice. You not just step away your feelings, you stuff away, your needs, your desires, your opinions.

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07 What is Self Awareness?

February 29, 2020 By Shauna

WHAT THIS EPISODES ABOUT…

On today’s podcast, we are jumping right into the journey of self awareness, but before we do that we have to talk about why we need it. Here’s the simplest answer in a sentence. If you don’t become self aware and look at your piece of how a relationship ended, you are doomed to repeat the same mistakes in the next one and nobody wants that and if your partner has left you or your beloved is passed away, if you don’t become self aware of your hurt, your sadness and your tools to deal with the sadness, your healing will be a very difficult journey. With self-awareness, you’re taking control of your healing instead of feeling like you’re being drowned in the sadness was self-reflection. You’re starting to find the tools to heal your own wounds. This guy free working on me. Podcast is an opportunity for you to delve into the sides of you that you want to change, that you want to grow.

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06 Live In This Moment

February 23, 2020 By Shauna

WHAT THIS EPISODES ABOUT…

The willingness to will nothing. As we travel on our journey, there are times when everything we think, we understand all of our tools and our knowing of how to survive. The life’s curve balls seemed to be irrelevant or maybe outdated is a better word or archaic or just plain useless. We find ourselves thinking and thinking about what our next survival tool will be. What will our next step in life be? What should I do now? What will be the anchor in the store? Revelation? Maybe for a moment in your life you are not supposed to be anchored. Maybe your most current upheaval is a new chance at a new beginning. Do we always have to understand why things happen to us? Do we always have to have a plan for our lives. I’ve come to realize that it is the unknowing of life that is the most fulfilling, the deconstructing of a structure that might not have been sound in the first place.

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03 The Love Fest

February 12, 2020 By Shauna

WHAT THIS EPISODES ABOUT…

Hello everyone. This is Shauna Hoffman, welcome to Guy Free Working on Me. A woman’s journey to self-awareness. Well, this episode is going to be a lot of fun because this is what I call the love Fest, the self love movement. Do y’all notice ever that as soon as someone separates from another person that all of a sudden they give themselves permission to go out and have a good time? All of a sudden you see your friends who are getting a divorce are getting separated and they’re out partying, and they’re meeting up with their girlfriends, and their going out to the movies theater and having so much fun. That’s what happens when finally we are no longer living our life for someone else. The challenge that happens right after you tend to leave someone is, you do it in such a way, you party in such a way, that you’re not actually honoring yourself.

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02 The Adventure of Finding Ourselves

February 11, 2020 By Shauna

WHAT THIS EPISODES ABOUT…

Hello and welcome to Guy Free Working on Me. A woman’s journey to self-awareness. Oh, I’m so glad you’re here today because today we’re going to talk about why we’re doing what we’re doing. Why we’re doing the work, the work on ourselves. Actually I don’t even like to call it work. I like to call it the adventure to finding ourselves, the journey to finding ourselves. There’s so much in life that comes with knowing who you are from the inside out, being aware of your own feelings, being aware of what makes you happy. This is what we’re going to find in these podcasts. We’re going to find what makes you happy, what makes you unhappy, what are you hiding? What do you looking for? What are your dreams? What are your fantasies? The first work that we have to do is taking a look at our self. Actually that’s all of the work. You know the self is a really interesting concept. We have so many buzz words nowadays. Self awareness, self worth, self guidance, genuine self, a self esteem, self love. We are going to take a look at all of that, because without all of those selves you will never find your own happiness.

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